Back on Mission: The Power of a Wave
A veteran recently shared a moment that could have ended very differently. He had lost his job, was about to lose his home, and felt like the last safe place in his life was gone. Driving his delivery route at 4:30 in the morning, his plan was simple and final: hit 100 mph into the lake.
Then—just around a bend—a little girl and her mother smiled and waved.
That’s it. Nothing heroic, nothing staged. Just an ordinary kindness at the right second. He waved back. He kept driving. And he didn’t kill himself that day.
It’s easy to overlook these small interactions, but sometimes they carry more weight than we realize. In that wave was recognition, connection, and a reminder that he was seen. It was enough to interrupt despair and create space for another choice. One more day.
The comments from fellow veterans poured in: “That’s a win. Keep the streak going.” “I’m proud of you.” “You are not alone.” Each message reinforces the truth—purpose can be rebuilt, support exists, and tomorrow is worth holding on for.
What We Can Learn
- Never underestimate small gestures. A smile, a hello, a wave might change someone’s trajectory.
- Community saves lives. Veterans rallied online, offering resources, encouragement, and simple presence.
- Back on mission. Sometimes survival is the mission. Sometimes it’s as basic as staying one more day.
Challenge to You
As a company, a community, or an individual—what can you do, today, to wave someone back from the edge?
- Hire a veteran.
- Offer flexible work.
- Sponsor peer support or wellness programs.
- Simply reach out to a friend who’s gone quiet.
These aren’t grand gestures. But like a child’s wave, they may matter more than you’ll ever know.
One sentence summary: Sometimes the smallest act of recognition—a wave from a child—can pull a veteran back on mission and save a life.
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—Bob McTaggart, RED Friday Field Notes
